My first blogger Award!!!

Vee from The Hodgepodge files has given me my first blog award! Yay, I’m a Kreativ Blogger!!! 


The Conditions for Accepting the Award are:

  1. Link back to the person who gave you this award
  2. Answer the questions below
  3. Award 10 other blogs and let them know in a comment or email
  4. Share 7 random thoughts about yourself
Questions:

1. NAME YOUR FAVORITE SONG:
Donny Hataway- A song for you

2. NAME YOUR FAVORITE DESSERT:
Kit Kat lol

3. WHAT TICKS ME OFF
Selfish people who use the word “confused”

4. WHEN I’M UPSET I:
Quite and then I wait to explode

5. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE PET:
My dog “Jade”

6. BLACK OR WHITE:
Black

7. BIGGEST FEAR:
Crowds… To live in NYC I hate them. 

8. EVERYDAY ATTITUDE:
“I’ll make it through”

9. WHAT IS PERFECTION:
Accepting Reality

10. GUILTY PLEASURE:
Online Shopping

7 Random Things About Me

I look like my mother its scary lol.
My favorite movie is “waiting to exhale”I speak to 4 people with the same birthday as mine.
I love Captin Crunch Cereal.
I would marry Common (blushes)I want to Atlanta.
My favorite perfume is Burberry weekend

I’m awarding:
I am honored to be rewarded! Those ten bloggers are some of the many that I follow but I sure believe that if I could reward everyone I would!!! Thanks Vee!

New Years Eve

Last day of the year and I’m humble none the less. I can’t say I have a resolution but I want to change a few things. Just little things to make it clear that I want to have a fresh start.
1. New hair color
2. Shorter hair (maybe)
3. Treating myself more, because I never do.
4. Lose weight for health reasons.
5. Go on 5 different trips.
Simple stuff.
But for my blog. Theres more to come. I started this year and I’ve meet inspirational woman. I love all the blogs I follow.
More to come… Happy and safe new year loves.

The "Stupid" Friend

Oh how I miss you! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year when it comes. I’ve been gone due to overload. I’ve been going through it for the last few weeks but I know things will get better. Most of my stresses have been draining me mentally. The biggest one happens to be from some heartbreak I’ve recently been experiencing. As I venture off into  this “mood” that has totally off tracked my days, I’ve realized something about the people I continuously speak to, ‘They ain’t shit”.  As most of us hope that we have friendships that we know can be lifelong, trusted and judgement free, were dead wrong. I’m only saying this because in my time of need, no one seems to be listening. I feel.

I’m not one of those friends, I’ll talk, take you away, answer your calls at 3 am, literally run to your rescue and prepare for the fight if need be. But I do judge. I can’t understand fully but I’ll atleast try my hardest to put myself in your shoes and listen even when you can’t stop talking about it. Why? Because your HURT. Once that is all said and done and you go back to the madness we’ll speak as if what you just been through doesn’t exist. So you’ll become “the stupid friend” because the situation isn’t relevant anymore.

In all realty, we never talk about the things that made us once happy when were mad. We speak about all the things that have us in this rage that makes us so HURT. That’s how you become “the stupid friend”. You leave out all the good details and have me believing another. I’m gulity. Are you?

This also brings me to Love and Hip Hop on vh1. Emily B. See everyone swears she’s “the stupid friend” ie: Chrissy and Olivia. But what we see in blogs, magazines, and twitter lol, doesn’t say much about the man in the home. Don’t get me wrong now, I would’ve pull a Lisa “Left Eye” Lopez on that ass already, or a Bernadine from “Waiting To Exhale”. LMAO. Yes Fab is a dog and a cheat but he’s someone else when he’s home because we don’t see or hear the nice part of him. So let’s stop judging cause we don’t know.

After today I will longer speak of the bad in a person, happy or unhappy, without the expressing of the good. Not saying that I didn’t do it with my current delimma, but not enough. And that being said anyone is clearly allowed to judge me until I do the opposite. What’s the purpose of the benefit of the doubt, if there isn’t something to back of the benefit. Being that we don’t know I’ve offically become “the stupid friend”. And my friends “they still ain’t shit” because that’s how I feel.

Are you “the stupid friend”, know “the stupid friend” or once been “the stupid friend”?