Hey lovesss!

I’ve been out of the loop and yes I do apologize. Interpersonal issues and some that interfere with my business world. Wishing that can be reversed and hopefully it does soon.

I said I was working on some changes for  2012.

So with that much being said as of today I’ll be doing a blog series.

  • Let It OUT Monday’s
  • Relaxed Tuesday’s
  • Blog Finds Wednesday’s
  • Quotable Thursday’s
  • Fab Friday’s

Let it out Monday’s will be about all the frustrations of my past week or any topics that do happen to make me tick some .. -_-

Relaxed Tuesday’s will be about different relaxation remedies that I’ve found from other bloggers, and magazines, or my personal relaxation remedies.

Blog Find Wednesday’s will be about all the Fabulous finds that I find from other bloggers. From nail polish to shoes! Even some buys from the bloggers with online shops! It’s all about support!

Quotable Thursday’s will be about a quote that I’ve found that has influenced me. It’s just like a smile, pass it on. I’ve seen somethings that have made my days much different through reading.

Last But not least, Fab Friday’s.. So I made an awkward commitment to go out more often, which I haven’t been doing much of but I promised myself. This would be a description of the experience or a series of photos.

Hopefully all runs smoothly and you enjoy it!!!


It is Necessary?

As the media goes on to expose every celebrities life, Robert Kardashian’s ex-wives report to the Star Magazine that Khole Kardashian isn’t his daughter.

OK, pump the breaks, stop, now blink twice, and get ready for it!

Who the hell told these two heffa’s that they could even tell something like that. Where the hell is the respect to your DEAD ex-husband?  And how dare you even expose something like that if the allegations are true?

Although Kris Jenner, momma Kardashian, basically told something of that nature in her just recently released book, but let her tell it. Not these two timing disrespectful skeezers. I’m hurt for Khole because her whole life she had to deal with this issue. She was always the difference at home. How could you do such a thing?

She’s my favorite Kardashian and yes I said Kardashian! Is it necessary?

It’s Monday!!!!

Those who work the five day work like I do, We sure hate Monday’s. But at least my weekend was beautiful! With this up and down New York City weather it makes my weekends amazing until we get some snow.

To Update some… Yes yall our home girl Beyonce had her baby! Blue Ivy. Congrats Girl!!!! Remember my baby shower gift LOL. We shout out to her, Mr. Carter, and Baby Carter.

Well to make my Monday a little better Love and Hip Hop is on tonight. That will add some excitement until next weekend. But I have some opinions about last nights show of Mob Wives. I’m not a reality TV junkie but somethings I will watch and this show has caught me for a loop. Is it just me? Drita is a mess. I’m not feeling her. And whether or not Karen claims where the situation stands about friendship, you couldn’t marry my ex of 7 years and not tell me. They were still friends just grew apart. We all have those friends that we were close to and things happened through out the years. That’s pretty much what happened. So WHAT if Karen was cheating on him, that’s not your damn business but you fell in love with my ex and married him and couldn’t find a way to tell me all this? I should have been on that show. I would’ve threw her off the roof myself. I’m exaggerating. But I can be wrong maybe?

What do you feel about the Drita and Karen situation?

My first blogger Award!!!

Vee from The Hodgepodge files has given me my first blog award! Yay, I’m a Kreativ Blogger!!! 

The Conditions for Accepting the Award are:

  1. Link back to the person who gave you this award
  2. Answer the questions below
  3. Award 10 other blogs and let them know in a comment or email
  4. Share 7 random thoughts about yourself

Donny Hataway- A song for you

Kit Kat lol

Selfish people who use the word “confused”

Quite and then I wait to explode

My dog “Jade”


Crowds… To live in NYC I hate them. 

“I’ll make it through”

Accepting Reality

Online Shopping

7 Random Things About Me

I look like my mother its scary lol.
My favorite movie is “waiting to exhale”I speak to 4 people with the same birthday as mine.
I love Captin Crunch Cereal.
I would marry Common (blushes)I want to Atlanta.
My favorite perfume is Burberry weekend

I’m awarding:
I am honored to be rewarded! Those ten bloggers are some of the many that I follow but I sure believe that if I could reward everyone I would!!! Thanks Vee!

New Years Eve

Last day of the year and I’m humble none the less. I can’t say I have a resolution but I want to change a few things. Just little things to make it clear that I want to have a fresh start.
1. New hair color
2. Shorter hair (maybe)
3. Treating myself more, because I never do.
4. Lose weight for health reasons.
5. Go on 5 different trips.
Simple stuff.
But for my blog. Theres more to come. I started this year and I’ve meet inspirational woman. I love all the blogs I follow.
More to come… Happy and safe new year loves.

The "Stupid" Friend

Oh how I miss you! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year when it comes. I’ve been gone due to overload. I’ve been going through it for the last few weeks but I know things will get better. Most of my stresses have been draining me mentally. The biggest one happens to be from some heartbreak I’ve recently been experiencing. As I venture off into  this “mood” that has totally off tracked my days, I’ve realized something about the people I continuously speak to, ‘They ain’t shit”.  As most of us hope that we have friendships that we know can be lifelong, trusted and judgement free, were dead wrong. I’m only saying this because in my time of need, no one seems to be listening. I feel.

I’m not one of those friends, I’ll talk, take you away, answer your calls at 3 am, literally run to your rescue and prepare for the fight if need be. But I do judge. I can’t understand fully but I’ll atleast try my hardest to put myself in your shoes and listen even when you can’t stop talking about it. Why? Because your HURT. Once that is all said and done and you go back to the madness we’ll speak as if what you just been through doesn’t exist. So you’ll become “the stupid friend” because the situation isn’t relevant anymore.

In all realty, we never talk about the things that made us once happy when were mad. We speak about all the things that have us in this rage that makes us so HURT. That’s how you become “the stupid friend”. You leave out all the good details and have me believing another. I’m gulity. Are you?

This also brings me to Love and Hip Hop on vh1. Emily B. See everyone swears she’s “the stupid friend” ie: Chrissy and Olivia. But what we see in blogs, magazines, and twitter lol, doesn’t say much about the man in the home. Don’t get me wrong now, I would’ve pull a Lisa “Left Eye” Lopez on that ass already, or a Bernadine from “Waiting To Exhale”. LMAO. Yes Fab is a dog and a cheat but he’s someone else when he’s home because we don’t see or hear the nice part of him. So let’s stop judging cause we don’t know.

After today I will longer speak of the bad in a person, happy or unhappy, without the expressing of the good. Not saying that I didn’t do it with my current delimma, but not enough. And that being said anyone is clearly allowed to judge me until I do the opposite. What’s the purpose of the benefit of the doubt, if there isn’t something to back of the benefit. Being that we don’t know I’ve offically become “the stupid friend”. And my friends “they still ain’t shit” because that’s how I feel.

Are you “the stupid friend”, know “the stupid friend” or once been “the stupid friend”?

What’s in your purse?

Hey loves!!!! I’ve been sooooo gone! I apologize but work has been more then hectic! But I have to make a living some way. But its Purse Party Friday!!!!!! Get with it ladies its fun, one of my favorite blogs in her shoes is hosting it with some of her girls check it out.

This is my purse ladies…. Donney 

 Iphone wire| Headphones| Bath and Body Works country chic spray| Eucerin hand lotion| C.O.Bigelow Mint Lipgloss| Bath and Body works Coconut Hand sanitizer| My phone| Bluetooth| Dove Deodorant| Maybelline mascara| Band-aids| Maybelline Eyestudio| A stack of business cards| My job keys| My big money ticket I’ll win tonight lol| My wallet| and an umbrella| 
What’s in your purse ladies?