Category: 31 Days of Honesty

Day 7 of Honesty

Hurting,
It’s never easy getting over something that hurt you. Lately, I’ve been spending a lot of time with friends and family to revert my mind about all that hurts in my personal life. Some days I’m sadder than others but then I think about all the love from my family and friends. 
When you’re passionate about anything, your emotions will run high. There’s nothing wrong with having emotions. It’s okay. This is what I keep telling myself. I’ve gotten over unwanted emotions time after time. But avoiding how I feel is what I’m trying to overcome. 
I’ve always been the type to avoid anything that can hurt me. But I need disappointment to teach me lessons, guide me to my blessings, and show me that life has it’s ups and downs always. 

Day 7 of Honesty, this too shall pass, it’s okay to experience hurt. 

Day 6 of Honesty

Reality, 
The problem with reality is that no one ever takes the time to see reality for what it is. As I grow, I realize that some people seek potential in others before seeing the reality. What I’ve come to realize is that I do the same thing too. 

Day 6 of honesty, I need to see the reality in you before your potential.

Day 5 of Honesty

The Crisis,
Source


It’s been the official QUARTER LIFE CRISIS as of April 11th. I made it to 25! No drama, no major setbacks except for my degree, and I enjoyed the start of my year. But there’s some missing factors that just keep nagging me like,
  • no relationship 
  • no husband
  • no baby
  • no apartment
  • still with my parents
  • my career is unsettling
  • I don’t have my degree
  • New York is too damn expensive.
Might I interject, The no relationship does not phase me because I can care less, neither does the husband part because its my family’s wedding not mine, and the baby I CAN WAIT! Only God knows when those events are to happen so I’m not pushing those particular subjects.
However, my family and their oh so traditional ways are pushing these subjects. All I know is that I am in limbo! I don’t like it. I want a lot and I’m just not sure where to begin. Everyone around my age, including my blogging idols are stressed with this damn year 25. I need a vacation!

Day 5 of Honesty, The Crisis, give me an epiphany or hurry to 26 because I’m tired of you!