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Awkwardly I’m always caught in the middle of advice battles but I do have a situation I clearly need help with seriously.
We’ve been friends for years and I’ve grown to love him like my brother although, we actually meet on terms of dating. Yuck! When I think of it. But that’s besides the point. Back in July he introduced me to this really nice girl he met. Honestly their chemistry could speak languages of love in a crowded room. It was like reading one of my favorite love stories, I just love them together. But with this kind of love comes with intense intimacy. Which led her to becoming pregnant. I was so excited about it until I heard his reaction.
Its so serious that he boldly said to me, ”I don’t want a child, I’m not going to pretend. I won’t be in its life.” I was so shocked that I became silent. But deep down in me I wanted to let the Jamaican come out of me and tell him about his BUMBO–BLOODCLOT. Yes all the clots and more. But he’s my friend and those are his emotions. Where they’re coming from I don’t know. I was wondering may be his financial situation could be a reason for him being scared about having a child at the moment. But I know a few people with children who work it out regardless the circumstance.
I just feel so bad for her because she doesn’t deserve to be a single mother, nor be told to abort a child because of his emotions. Is his emotions wrong because I am woman? I can also bare children with Gods blessings? Or does he need to see she didn’t do it on her own? And see this is when loyalty plays a big part in friendship. You can’t take sides but I don’t know how sensitive he’ll become after this and his reaction he’ll have towards me disagreeing with his feelings.
But as she told him after finding out she was pregnant, she had missed some days of her birth control regime and was suppose to be switching to a new one but failed to tell him this once she got pregnant. MESSY!!!!
What do I say?